Wednesday, January 14, 2009

You are a Benevolent Director.



You are a Director

As a DIRECTOR, you combine an unusual openness and passion for beauty and style with confidence and a down-to-earth sensibility that allow you to realize your vision.

You are practical and pay attention to the details that others tend to miss.

By focusing on what is real and concrete, you achieve more than those who always have their heads in the clouds.

When it comes to what really matters in your life, you are confident in your ability to succeed.

Having beautiful things in your life gives you pleasure and satisfaction - you have a keen eye for style.

Even when problems present themselves, deep down you know you will overcome these challenges.

When routines get too familiar, you become bored and start looking for ways to spice things up.

You are open to new types of experiences – you are not afraid to take a risk on something new.

You have a highly developed sense of taste – you know what looks good on you, in your home, and in the world at large.

Generally, you believe that you control your life, and that external forces only play a limited role in determining what happens to you.


If you want to be different:

Occasionally let yourself dream a little more, even if it doesn't seem practical or efficient.


how you relate to others
You are Benevolent

You are a great person to interact with—understanding, giving, and trusting—in a word, BENEVOLENT

You don't mind being in social situations, as you feel comfortable enough with people to be yourself.

Your caring nature goes beyond a basic concern: you take the time to understand the nuances of people's situations before passing any sort of judgment.

You're a good listener, and even better at offering advice.

You're concerned with others at both an individual and societal level—you sympathize with the plights of troubled groups, and you can care about people you've never met.

Considering many different perspectives is something at which you excel, and you appreciate that quality in others.

Other people's feelings are important to you, and you're good at mediating disputes.

Because of your understanding and patience, you tend to bring out the best in people.


If you want to be different:

You spend a lot of time taking care of others, but don't forget to take care of yourself!

Sometimes you can get overcommitted, and when you sacrifice spending time with those close to you, it can make them feel unimportant.

Monday, January 12, 2009

"It's your choice."

We experience this in life. Sometimes things are not as rosy and comfy as we expect them to be. The differences in lifestyle, mindset, values etc. We ignore them when we hope that matters can proceed on in the most smooth-sailing fashion ever, but when they surface, we begin to realise the fundamental disparities.

I have a choice. I can choose to be happy, or not to be happy.

I try my best to make things work out. I tussle with old issues, unable to reach a resolution, I simply live with the issue. Like a thorn in the flesh, it throbs when someone accidentally pushes against it. Take out the thorn, it bleeds like hell; keep the thorn, and tolerate the pain.

I have a choice. I can choose to be happy, or not.

People do not respond the way I hope they'd respond. That is the way of life, nothing's perfect. Underneath that masquerade of friendship, I see selfishness, indifference and judgements. I know it's the way of life. Nothing's perfect.

I have a choice. Live with it, or go away.

Don't worry, I have no problem with picking first choices.

My favourite mistake.